Although I know my dad rode a motorcycle when he was younger, I donโt have any memories of him doing so. Nor do I remember our family camping when I was growing up. My wife and I have taken our kids camping a few times since they got old enough that it wasnโt too much of a hassle, but it has always been car camping. This past summer was busier than usual, and when I knew we werenโt taking our usual big family trip and I still had the CFMOTO Ibex 800 T (see my Ibex 800 T review here), I told my son, Jameson, that we should go motorcycle camping.
As with most things that elicit excitement in a 10-year-old, he latched on to that idea and wouldnโt let go, so I decided we better make it happen while I still had the bike. I wanted him to have that memory.
Of my younger children, my son has taken to riding with me more so than my 13-year-old daughter. Itโs not a โteenager thingโ; itโs just not her thing. But for whatever reason, my boy, who is fearful of many other things, likes to get on the back of the bike. He still gets nervous on curvy roads, but on straightaways, Iโll sometimes see him in the mirrors with his arms spread out like heโs flying. I can relate to that feeling. And maybe part of it is just doing something with Dad. I can get on board with that too.
So we planned our trip. Although we were only traveling a little over an hour away, it would be Jamesonโs longest ride with me. It was also the first motorcycle camping trip for both of us. Honestly, it was about as close to car camping as you can get on a motorcycle โ except not as comfortable since I couldnโt take as much on the bike as we normally shoehorn into the car. But we were only going to be gone overnight โ and not far off the beaten path. We would be camping at a place that served diner food, but I wanted at least one meal cooked over a fire, so I packed some hot dogs โ and marshmallows, of course. Otherwise, we went pretty barebones, with just a tent, two old sleeping bags, and some snacks.
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When it comes to life with a 10-year-old, youโre not always sure when youโve hit a homerun. Sometimes itโs obvious, like when they ask to do it all again the next weekend. Other times, you have to pry a little more, and when you have a gracious kid like mine, then you have to figure out if heโs just saying he had fun because he knows itโs important to you.
I know he enjoyed parts of the trip. He liked being on the back of the motorcycle โ and I saw those arms spread out a few times. He didnโt like some of the twistier bits of the ride, but we talked about it that night at camp, and he felt more comfortable on the way backโฆI think. He was glad to arrive at our campground โ especially since there was a pool โ and he liked helping me with the tent. I made him leave his iPad home, which is a tough one for my kid, but we kept busy enough. Later that night in the tent, I caved and we watched a couple videos on my phone.
Mostly Iโm guessing he enjoyed the experience because it was just him and me, but like most kids with a sibling, I think he mightโve liked it more if his sister had expressed some jealousy. But she didnโt. She at least displayed some interest when we showed her and my wife the pictures, but there was no request of โCan I go next time?โ
Cooler temps mightโve helped as well. Itโs hard enough convincing a kid to get in full gear in the summer โ itโs hard to convince myself sometimes โ and he was especially ready to be done by the end of our trip when it hit the 90s and we were waiting in a drive-thru for our burgers before going home.
Our trip was a month and a half ago. So far, he hasnโt asked to do it again, but the rest of the summer continued to be as busy as the first part, so weโll see how it goes next year. I hope he had fun. Or at least I hope he remembers the good parts above the rest. Iโd say thatโs the goal of parenting in general.
Love it. My 7yo daughter has enjoyed 4 short camping trips by car, and she has enjoyed (very) short rides on the back of my old Honda Hornet and new Panigale. I can’t wait for the day she fits in proper youth riding gear and I can combine the two and take us motocamping like you’ve done with your boy.
Thanks Al! Previous to this trip, most of my rides with my boy had been pretty short as well. When you get to the motocamping point with your daughter, you’ll have to let us know how it goes.
Paul Dail
I haven’t done a road trip with my 13 yo, but we do go trail riding most weekends. He is very good at it, of course he is 13 and fearless. we have a wonderful time every time we go riding
Just hope he’ll wstill wana be seen with the old man as he gets older
Phillip, glad you are able to get out with your son. My son has been making noise about wanting to go in the dirt (and on his own two wheels). We’ll see about that one. And yes, I will be curious to see how much longer my son wants to hang out with me. I’d like to think I’m pretty cool (wouldn’t we all? ๐ )
Thanks for reading Rider and commenting on my story.
Paul Dail